single and lonely..or is it??

I think our society is in the slow process of adaption of coming out of the negative imagery of single people and quite evidently its a very slow process. well adaption sure is anyways..even tho' we have come a long way from lonely single women and drunkard bachelor uncles the fundamental attitude has'nt changed much but we can blame it on human nature to some extent.. it's only natural to be curious about the deviated .
well it's about time we begin to accept that a person can be single and do all the things and do all the things a married person does and grow old and die a natural death. u don't have to be mad scientist or a business tycoon to live a single life. but being single is deeper than being married and as Gandhiji said about non violence that it's not the attribute of the weak, the same can be said about singlehood. The most important aspect of being single is the involvement or rather the sense of involvement with ur own life, the things u like to do or want to do..besides the fact that u do end up with a hell lot more money than u wud have had had u got married (assuming that ur wife is not the daughter of some super rich dad). Even tho' singles get a lot of time with themselves its not like we don't enjoy company..it's only obvious that we have more fun than married couples since u don't have to align and co-ordinate ur fun graph with ur better or worse half. In this age of age of networking and instant capuchino and nirvana(both of which takes about the same time..for capuchino u need hot water and sugar and for nirvana u need mp3raid.com ) it's stupid to assume that anybody can be lonely or without friends.
But there's this stereotype sense that u r never complete without a partner more so if u r a women. It has been drilled into our heads that a women is never complete unless she experinces the whole process of creating a life thousands of songs and hundreds of movies has been made about it, funny thing is that now they r teaching just the opposite with i-pills,condoms,operations..but thats another issue. well now thanks to adoption agencies and smart people u don't have to miss on motherhood or fatherhood just becoz u r single. Apart from these things the parents of single people has to deal with the society with evasive answers like terrible horoscopes,insane planetary alignments and uncoperative gods. However with rising incomes and improved lifestyles the questions are getting diminished and answers bold.
Then there are always the standard issue speculations about ur sex life ranging sex starved to utter nymphomaniac and the usual gay lesbian routine. But singlehood lifestyle certainly makes ur sexual choices far more convinient than married since quite obviously u r not answerable to anyone and surely no one complains about the greater oppurtunity for sex. But it's a very touchy issue and u can get branded in no time, specially women..most people naturally feel that a single working women is always on the look out for it. How they respond is one's own personal business, but yes the attention can get to ur nerves sometimes.
but after talking about the wonderful gifts of single hood there r downsides too. At the end of the day after all the books have been read and movies seen and u wake up from the alcohol induced coma u do tend to get lonely sometimes. How u tackle it is totally ur own call.
As for me there r more books more movies and more friends..well there's more alcohol too..